During this time of last year, I was experiencing a few stupid things and was skillfully talking about it. Anxiety surrounding my health has spread to every aspect of my life (work, friends, even riding a train without crying). . Oh, I am single, so it was just a warm body to hug me enlarging and hugging my really fucking hated cold, was in New York City in January
Escape is necessary. It is not important, because you know life, but there are things that can pull me away from my head. Still, I am still facing the suggestion of all the books I found remotely "mood" - I need a company that suffers. Of course I got a copy of "This Close to Happy" written by Daphne Merkin. This is a very unpleasant memoir that recorded the author's frustration.
Strange to say this book does not save me from my depression, it is not a method of depression or clinical work. But that does not make me feel loneliness. I did not say to get upset or to start thinking about other things. Instead, I know that my feelings are amazing, not surprising or very abnormal, so it helps me find comfort. Perhaps most importantly, they are not permanent
That is the magic of books. You can find friendships among writers and characters. You can see the inner feelings you express on the page, and uh, uh, I am not alone. A book can move you to a completely new landscape in a magical and imaginary world of others, to confront you with your thoughts from a cumbersome thought.
However, I am not alone to rely on literary diversity. Here, 19 SELF readers and editors shared a book that helped them.
If there are friends who have experienced hardships, I am not telling you to run away. Actually, please help your friends as much as possible. Because they have long been complaining about sympathy, the negative people I mention have no difficult moments. These people will never be satisfied. Like the books by Waldo, they can find mistakes in every situation and earn prizes. Ultimately, this lack of appreciation will affect you. That suffered by the company of love, negative people hope you are at their pity party. I am wiser than I am trying to surround myself with people who are passionate about what they are doing. You do not always choose people, family, boss etc, but to some extent you can decide who is with you, I said, smart choice
There is no doubt that this will be an obstacle. You are responsible for predicting them and pushing it forward. Difficult times will not last, but harsh people will do it. At the end of the hard times, the people who finally fought finally found a way to stand up. If you fall seven times, you have to get up eight times. Your mind must be that you face any adversity in front of you. As I mentioned earlier you have to recognize your top people and reward them. In addition, we continue to compete to make business fun and promote a competitive atmosphere. We gave up on holidays, cars, watches, cash etc. Even entirely new people who may not be active at the top level make sure we even organize our competition, as there is a chance to win our top award.
All these things mean that everyone experienced difficult times and difficult times, which makes us stronger. That's why we need to applaud when one of us walks across those hard times. Since we have many things we can learn from each other, let's learn from each other's bad trips and help solve all the stupid things waiting for us.