18 Guideposts for Your Personal Journey

My lovely friend Mindy Tsonas of Wishstudio asked me to write a special young lady a few months ago to advance into a terrible (and exciting) adult world. I would like to look back on what I'm trying to say to my young version - and you may want to deal with similar projects. This is my letter including 18 road signs.

What will you write to start a new journey in their lives? I am glad that you can share your own road signs with you.

I am happy to share some of the secrets and useful lessons I have learned in the last 26 years with you. I struggle at various stages of my life and keep thinking so many of these techniques are my guide. When you begin to explore this magical new aspect of your life, I hope some people will resonate with you.

As long as you stretch with your courage to lay one leg in front of the other in search of support, struggle is no problem, you put on (and possess) your cockroach, It becomes flat on your face.

Learn to say no, just as you said. It is less. Replace "Can you do more?" Use "Do you want to do more?".

Mistakes are powerful gifts. Please do not hide the hidden lessons there - please understand the mistake calmly to gain wisdom with its rough appearance

"Success" can not be defined by others nor even given to others for evaluation. If no one protects you, your success may be removed at any time. If you identify success with your intrinsic value (even in subconscious), you will be away

Trying to avoid negative events and circumstances has proven to be futile - everyone will have negative things. But adversity often provides opportunities to increase personality, deepen emotional toughness, and enhance your overall self-awareness and self-worth. The lesson of these lives can only be achieved when you decide to go through difficult circumstances and rely on gifts, including self-empowerment.

Please do not fall into details. To whisper to Terri St. Cloud: She will never look back to make some beautiful details. She can only move forward and make the whole beautiful.

By acknowledging when you do not know the answer and revealing your vulnerability you can make your own real space for yourself and live with all of your heart and soul. From the moment of alleviating vigilance, we know ourselves best, "I do not know all answers, it is not important, how can I change this experience from confidence to a single empathy? I admit that.

Please remember the words of Margaret Thatcher when traveling becomes difficult. You may have to fight the fight several times to win.

Enjoy your unique journey. Thank you for all the steps taken by you to achieve your dreams. We must understand that each and every one of us is a unique journey different from person to person. I thank you and celebrate. Please ignore any things that did not understand what social media life is like. You can not judge the success or failure of life with criteria set by friends or enemies on social media such as Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat. Your time will definitely come. There is no choice but to succeed, so you have to come!

In the 5 months, we thought of too many scenarios that might be related to the 18 th 3 babies. We spent a lot of time learning the 18th complex, and following other social media with other families experiencing the same trip. We will do our best for spiritual, emotional and spiritual preparation. However, after seeing ultrasonic photos, at that moment, all the unknowns are known. The heart of our race suddenly stopped. it's all over

Your life has just begun. What you have just experienced is an 18 - year educational journey, and what is left is yours. It requires failure, exploration, conversation, frustration, sadness, and self-fulfillment - this is that most people making remarks can not tell you. Many of you graduate and exchange money. The time you exchange your salary is the value you create with that role. Keep in mind that not only does your company provide you with free meals, bus commuters, and gym membership discounts because they do not love you. This only means that they have found enough value to you so that you can work longer and do more work.