'When my sister married my boyfriend'

Rin dated Jacob for two years, and they discussed how to live together and become very serious. However, when Lynn 's sister broke up and moved after a while, she did not prepare the boyfriend for life change and her family life.

Recently he has not wanted me to stay in Sydney so he recently refused a high salary interstate employment - so we think that we are really strong. Stronger

We talked about marriage, but we talked only in a moderate way about having a child and talking about such a thing one day. So, from my point of view, there is no sign that we will not be together. He told me he loved me, I believe him

When her boy friend broke up with her, she began to go out with Jacob and me. Case and I are very similar in many respects, but she is much more quiet than I am.

I am a cool person, like a burning personality, and the case is always calm and gentle. Jacob's character is very similar to her, so I think they are doing very well.

So, when I went to work abroad for two weeks, it all happened. I told Cass she could break up with her boyfriend and stay in my spare room in my spare room.

When I came back, Case and Jacob were together. When they told me the truth, they loved each other and wanted to start a date, I cried, I shouted, I really can not believe what I heard. It is terrible to be betrayed by my sister. But I can not do anything about it.

I drove them out of the apartment and decided not to want to talk again. I explained her behavior to her and apologized, so I caught up with Cass many times, but she never said "I'm sorry". At the moment she is dead to me.

My parents tried to intervene instead of trying to break them, but by talking to Kath and telling her how to find a way to fix her relationship with me. However, I have met my older sister before, she is one of those without anyone other than partner. So she really chose Jacob.

Six months later, my mother told me they were engaged, and I cried for a couple of days. Because I am still single, I get worse. How can she handle this sister this way? do not know

I refused to attend the wedding, I was shocked that they invited me - did they really think that I would go to the wedding? This was very humiliating. My brother refused to go, so at least I have a family beside me.

Since then, I have seen Kath several times at family meetings, but I completely ignore her. I will abandon her when she approaches me. She has never taken Jacob to her family's activities, so she has some sort of sympathy.

Some people may say I need to forgive her, maybe I will. But my pain is still very fresh, and if I think that it does not exist, my life will be much easier.

When I was 24 years old, I took my university boyfriend to my grandmother's funeral in Texas. At the time, my two sisters were married, and my father's high school friend whispered to my mother: "Do you listen to more wedding bells?" And my mother told the lady very quickly. "Oh, they do not believe in marriage"

That happened. When I was in my teens my mother 's new boyfriend stimulated my long - awaited expectation of my father. There are several boyfriends in my mother, I always understand. She is no longer married. I do not know the reason, but I believe my father is love for her life. But this boyfriend is worthless. I thought that she was humiliating with him on that day. He does not respect her. She should be far better than the man she met at the bar. I still remember the slap she gave me after I sent the word "bar". I admit that I deserve it. I have learned this for many years. At that time, when my skin was slapping and still burning, I remembered boxes and letters. I remember a special letter saying "When you spent the worst time with your mother"

I thought it was normal to take my boy friend once in a while. It seems that it is a legitimate form of argument that someone hits the face. As I asked my girlfriend, I found that many of them had called the boyfriend or date at least once. Many of my friends are slapped. When I repeat this action, my boyfriend said enough. Since we are children, we know that we should not call our friends, our brother, or anyone. The blow is not cool. As a man, you are taught that you'll never attack a woman. As a woman, you are taught that you will never accept being beaten. Report it. For some reason, I think the slap in the face is an exception, but it is the same as the system gap.