“Infidel”

About two years ago, I read Ayaan Hirsi Ali's memoir "Pagan", but her story, especially the atrocities her experienced in childhood in Africa and the way she tried to escape from oppressive life I was very surprised. At that time, I could not imagine that no one would share her emotions and opinions, not to mention victims of repression like her, nobody (except fanatic Muslims). However, reading the killing of Ian Bruma in Amsterdam, the larger and more ambiguous content revealed in the story, it obviously affects the disapproval of her actions by some people.

Articles on infidelity, two recently published and exciting books: Reconsidering the situation by New York psychotherapist Esther Perel and "dishonest" healing by Boulder's psychotherapist Michele Weiner-Davis, Koro. Both books are based on the extensive experience of the author and provide advice to couples whose relationships are confused by the problem. The good news is that depending on the reasons for the partner's puzzle and how the couple can be together, the affair does not need a divorce. Indeed, Mr. Perell and other marriage counselors discovered that couples who chose to recover from rebellion and rebuilding are often stronger, more caring and mutually understanding relationships than before.

Two projects evaluated whether each person committed adultery during each study. The first participants asked within the last six months to indicate whether they have "a romantic feeling / affair". The second participant asked the participants to indicate whether they found "partner's affair" within the last 6 months. During each study period, participants answered questions about every 6 months. A total of 22 spouses and / or their partners reported an affair. Although this estimate is low compared to other estimates (Atkins et al. 2001; Greeley, 1994; Laumann et al., 1994; Wiederman, 1997), such other estimates are often more than 5 years , Based on the inclusion of more samples. - Make a marriage. Two of the couple reported 4 of these adultery, 7 of them reported by their spouse who committed adultery and the other 11 were reported by their spouse who committed adultery.

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