"Dimensions": Too Controlling or Loving Too Much

Sometimes in husband and wife, her husband unfairly dominates his wife and the other accepts his wife for his full affection for him. At Alice Munro's "Dimensions", the main character Doree married Lloyd, an old hippie that he met at a hospital. They succeeded in having three children, but after marriage Lloyd began to show his dominant character through the story. Dolly can not resist his control behavior and philosophy. But she showed that she has the ability to oppose him, especially in the end.

Despair is often come from despair; I want it. Men often wish to be loved by women and often pay attention to whether their women truly love them but for men it is entirely possible to show so many people wanting and needing him It may fail. As I hope he calls him overly and always wants to concentrate, when you can not get all of his attention you feel silent and lose your mood and never feel satisfied Feel, always tell him how much I miss you, I miss you. Although he may be able to endure during this period, he feels tired and sooner or later get bored by them.

Do people have too much love and too much happiness? Yes, yes. Let us be the reality, when people say they want us to always be happy, they really do not think about it. What they truly mean is that they want more love and more happiness. If they have love only and they are not afraid, they are not protecting those who use them, they will be predated quickly and will not sleep all night. Likewise, only happy people can not sympathize, interact with others, and can not sympathize. Is there too much peace? Can you imagine a world with only peace? There is nothing fun. Dancing and singing are just happy, compared to the struggle you overcame and escaped.

There are many things in the world without love. Perhaps there is love. It may insist that it is cautious, but it is just a marketing slogan that tells you that it is not. Too many things are careless without thinking and do not provide real human benefits. If there is no meaning, happiness, purpose, how can I get something from there? But, if you do not have much love for what you are doing, what do you think if you simply destroy your life and use people? Perhaps you can resist guilt, bury your shame, even learn to suppress uselessness and disappointment. But this is all you have to do, where is your energy?