(Closed) When your DH picks up a hitchhiker…

Dear husband and I traveled in the Caribbean. Because it was a left-handed island he drove, and I did not get used to it. Dear husband saw a person hitchhiking at the side of the road without asking me, and gave him a car.

I am not satisfied with this, then I ask Darling my husband whether I will ask me at least whether I am kind to the next time. He said that it can not be guaranteed to do this.

Dear husband from New Zealand, I think hitchhiking may be more common. He did this at young age, he said he took them before.

The person we picked up smelled a bit rough and it might make me angry more than before. Dear husband soon accepted his rough feelings and we put him at the ice cream stand after about ten minutes.

Before he did something, I rarely asked Darling's husband to consult me ​​about my work (we made a lot of decisions together, but to others I also gave a lot of breathing space). Small things (Again, I might be biased towards the smell of this man.) I think that my husband is more comfortable for hitchhiker when I was young, so I am jealous. paranoia

Yes, this is not good. One reason is that hitchhiking is illegal in all states (at least in most states I know) ... it may be safe and acceptable in New Zealand, but it certainly is not the case here Hmm. The area thinks it is safe

I will explain to him why you are concerned, probably provide statistics and articles about hitchhikes in the US - do not try to frighten him, but inform it that it is not safe please

If you have a number of violent people running around while you are hitchhiking, the less people you pick up, the more dangerous people hitchhiking. It drives itself itself so that it does not exist. Basically no one ever hitchhikes. And this way almost disappeared. Do you think this is the real social value? Hitchhiker is economically effective as it allows more people to enter the car. As a matter of fact, you have a certain number of random crazy people who will hurt you. As long as you have the same number of random crazy people, you have the same number of violent crimes, and it seems to me that it does not change anything elimination of ride . Therefore, this is a social change protecting individuals. In other words, do not pick up and do not hitchhike. I am not a madman. I am doing this to protect myself. However, protecting ourselves is not worth society.

The family went out. They may pick up stray dogs like you for sympathy, altruism and nostalgia, but they do not actually have time and energy to talk. If you have children in your car, the truth will be ten times. Families choosing free riders are wonderful (which is power for them!) But they are not what you want. The same applies to cars with multiple passengers. They may include interesting people, but you are playing odds games here. Although you can stack spare cars with 2 to 4 passenger cars, the possibility of dialogue is not that big, but you can secure a lot of space. It is fun to be with some friends somewhere, but here it is not just looking for fun.